:-) Friendships are hard to come by! :-)

I was a little bored today so I took this test to see what kind of friend I am and this test was very accurate how  it   turned out.

It asked me 10 different questions about how I interact with my small circle of friends.  It was on point with how I spend my time with friends.

Know this if I don’t speak to you on a daily basis know one thing I do think of you, and pray for you.  My friends and I also tell each other we love each other every time  we talk, because you never know when you will receive that call with bad news.

So make every moment count. What ever you do in life leave foot prints in peoples lives and hearts because kindness and friendliness will go further than you know. Also admit when you’re wrong. Even when you have something hard to tell them take some time and tell them. It will hurt, but it will be out in the open. It will be easier to work through then not saying anything at all. speaking from experience in my life as well.

I’ve had to tell a friend something very difficult in my life but we got through it with care and you will do the same.   

Also  never let a disagreement go for a long period  of time. You never know what a day could  bring.  If something happens to that person you will never be able to get  the chance to make things right with them and fix the friendship. So just don’t let the sun set on your anger.

In the bible,  it speaks of not letting the devil get  a foothold  in your life. That passage can b found in  Ephesians  4:26:27

    Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:

²⁷ Neither give place to the devil.

I know it speaks of not letting the sun go down on your wrath.

I am guilty of it as well. When you sleep with anger you’ve already let the devil in. This goes for families and friendships as well.  

So if you value your friendship you will work on making things a little better.

We also  have pride and will let that stand in the way, but if you do that can also ruin things.

So treasure your friends.

I have often  said in my lifetime that friends are hard to come by. Usually when I make friends I try to keep my friends.

Also found in the bible in verse 31 and 32  of Ephesians  it will show you how to maintain a friendship. Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.  So if you can at least try treating people with the same love that Christ has shown you then you will be a happier person.  I know it isn’t easy but we can certainly give  it our best.

I will share the results of what that test said. It was like they were reading my mind. 🙂 My thoughts are usually all over the place. So I imagine that was a roller coaster in itself.

      Friendships make life so enjoyable. The friends you’ve got are often people you have known for a long time, who have stuck with you through thick and thin. You form a loyal little gang who protect each other and care for each other. You can be frank with each other and you know how to pull together during difficult times. Your friends keep you grounded and you’re never bored when they’re around. They are affectionate and fun and there is a positive energy in the air when you spend time together. You all understand that it’s the quality of the time you spend together, not the quantity, that counts. You enjoy meeting up and look forward to it when the occasion arises. You prepare for it in an almost ritualistic manner, each member of the group with their own important role. You gel together well because of mutual respect for your loyal, warm ‘second family’. Friendship is precious to you and is a vital part of your journey through life. You know that it is something to be shared, and that you must cultivate your friendships with love.  

I thank you if you stuck around and read my blog. It was a little hard to write because word was  giving me a rough time. I got through it though.

As much as I love you Jesus loves you even more! Until next time KTF and god bless!